Here are some helpful guidelines and responsibilities as a sitter. When you decide to seek a medium, be ready to work with the medium. There is a give and take between the medium, sitter, and spirits.  Your responses will either be a yes, no, or I don’t know. Sometimes, I hear a name which I repeat. If it does not mean anything to you, just simply say “No”. If it does, give simple example feedback as follows: “Henry is my grandfather and he is deceased” Or “Natalia is my aunt and she is alive”. This gives me simple feedback and I move on with the next piece of information coming through.

It’s interesting how I brought through a spirit who named three relatives alive here that are related to her. She didn’t give me her name, but she gave names of her brother, cousin, and father. Another spirit gave me a name the sitter didn’t recognize. It came up again, later in the reading. Still no recognition of this name. Then spirit directed me in a different direction and piece by piece it turned out to be the name of the spirit’s beloved childhood stuffed animal. Which brought so much laughter and joy! This precious stuffed animal was passed on to the sitter from her father who crossed.

It is helpful to the medium when you know the family genealogy and history. Cheers and love from the other side!